Monday 19 July 2010

The last post of Korea...

So, this is the end! I just had my last meeting with my students! There were only a few...and that was it! My boss is a funny man. I have always been nice about him ~ but I feel he's really shown his true colours! He asked if i would come back to Korea, and my 1st response was "NO! You think after what you've done to me I want to subject myself to it all over again!? You must be joking!" He looked shocked and I walked away. I know I'm not the subtlest of people, but I normally tone myself down for my bosses...but he'd finally given me my final pay (DISMAL!), and I'd finally got him to do my letter of recommendation - the worst one I've seen, but whatever! And I was about to walk out.

I am so sad I'm leaving feeling this way, but after the last 2 weeks, I am so ready to get on the road, and leave Korea and have a few weeks in South East Asia, Spain and then getting back into the swing of things in the UK!

I will miss a few things about Korea, but most things I think I'll miss I can replace with something at home - food, people, etc etc....!

Anyway, I'll try and get a happy blog up here as soon as I've purged and cleaned and packed I'm sure I'll be a little happier!

Love xx

Friday 16 July 2010

I just saw this...

OK, so enough with the melt down...I just saw this video, and I think it expresses what Korea is to me a bit too...the crazy kids, who are so loving and affectionate...and all the fun we get to have seing it...and being dragged into it :D Man, I love Korea and teaching...



Please enjoy and a huge thanks to Simon at http://www.eatyourkimchi.com/ for spending 2 years making it...I hope you guys don't mind me using it...

The 1st Melt Down...

Tonight I had what I would like to consider to be my 1st of a few melt downs. Two weeks ago I was given the news that as of the 19th I would have no job for me in South Korea. It was a very tough blow and I realised a lot of things about what I wanted out of life. In Yeonghae, I had a great job, good kids and my own place. I earn enough money to both save and spend and my friends are pretty cool :) I know I'm far away from civilization (the hard part) and my dear dear mother ~ who I don't know how I live without, but I seem to manage with almost daily emails and weekly phone calls. And of course my friends back at home. Thanks to the new age, with internet and skype and long distance phone calls, I'm very very lucky and can keep in touch with all who want to keep in touch with me!

I was really comfortable here before it was ripped out from under my feet. But once I found out (after about 24 hours of crying and wallowing in self pitting and wondering what it all meant!) I jumped back up, landing firmly on my travelling feet. I'm so excited to have an opportunity to see some more of God's great earth! So, I cancelled tickets and booked others, and got excited and planned more, and packed all my boxes. And planned more. And booked more. And generally came up with a plan.

Well as of today I am as sorted as I can be for a trip to SE Asia. And I am as packed as I can be until I buy my backpack. And I've cleaned as much as I can clean until I have shipped various things either to England of the rest of the ex-pats in Korea! I was preparing myself for a monday of farewells...

Then I find out my classes finish today ~ bummer, but easily sorted with a quick fix party and a huge game of hide and seek! Then I find out I don't get a chance to have the party the middle schoolers were planning with me! Oh, but I can pop in on Monday at 1:30pm to say goodbye and take a photo....GRRRR!!! Now that made me mad!

I would think that's right about when the melt down started.

And then I continued to be bored and not being able to find something (anything) to occupy myself with so I didn't have to think about these horrible things...I started to wallow again :( then a few other things happened that are completely unrelated and I think my head might actually explode with either tears, screams or something worse....silence!

So, it's almost 10:30pm, I'm not tired, my online movies aren't working (the others are packed) I have no happy place to go to right now, and I'm angry. At my boss. At the world. At myself. I don't know! I just needed to air my melt down in a vain attempt to help me over come it!

I hope you've been provided with some kind of amusement! Laters guys xx

Wednesday 14 July 2010

Slowly Winding Down...

So, with 5 days before I become a temporary nomad, I thought I'd start finishing up! Those who know me will know that this is a pretty new concept for my to be dealing with....finishing something I've started, but this year has proved to me and hopefully a few others, that I'm capable of starting and FINISHING something! Hehehe! I'm one of those people who gets excited about new starts and doing new things. I love starting things. But the finishing is a lot harder for me to finish. I think it's just one of my personality traits! But, I think I've done quite well this year. In 9 or 10 months I've posted over 70 blog updates, and I'm coming close to finishing.

This week saw me booking my flights from Korea to Vietnam, and then Thailand to England. Getting a Vietnamese VISA, travel insurance, getting photos and planning more of my trip. On one hand I'm really getting excited, but on the other hand, in 2 weeks I've seen my plans for the future become nothing but dead wood lying there doing nothing. I know I'll still go to China and do all the things I wanted to do while I was there, and in the mean time I get to see more of the world!!!

Yesterday I told the last class I needed to that I'm leaving. One of the girls actually almost cried! I felt awful! But there's not a lot we can do about it!

OK, on with the day guys, have a great one ~ and I'll try and write at least one more blog on Monday when I'm officially done with this contract!

Love xx

Saturday 10 July 2010

Unsurityies Of This Life...

Well, that title doesn't seem overly optimistic does it!? I promise it'll get better!

In 9 days I finish working here, and then I get to tour Korea with some friends. After that I'm heading to South East Asia for a short while before heading home.

Up until last night I was feeling apprehensive about the whole thing. I mean I'm having to start all over again, all over again. I'm also travelling on my own. I have to pack up my life. I have to see so many people before I leave. I have to leave friends behind and I have to move back home.

Up until last night I was still worried about travelling. Thinking that maybe I was being stupid for going exploring on my own. But truth be told, I'm pretty good at making friends, and think of all the awesome people who'll be travelling too! I get to see amazing things and go to amazing countries. And meeting up with some friends will be a nice touch :)

Suddenly I didn't feel so worried about all.

This is what I love to do!

But then there was still that nagging feeling. Slowly it dawned on me, it's the going home. To England, to my old life, to no job, no actual bed and finding peace with that.

And then I remembered my friends, my family, the potential for doing what I love for a short time in England. The possibility for more travel and being surrounded by all things English :p

So, now the nagging feeling has subsided, for the moment. And I'm glad!

I'm going to miss Korea and my little place in it's bizarro nation...but I'm also going to treasure the time I have back at home!

Have a great weekend guys! xxx

Thursday 8 July 2010

Just Some of the Books I've Read Since Being in Korea...

Ok, so I started writing a list of the books I was getting through while I was in Korea...because there were so many. Now I'm moving on, I need a place to store the list and add to it as I need to. It's basic at the moment, but I'll pad it out when I get a chance...

The Undomestic Godess
Bad Mothers Handbook
Velvet Elvis
The Book of Negros
White Tiger
Twilight
New Moon
The Curious Indecent of the Dog in the Night Time
Eclipse
Not That Kind of Girl
Breaking Dawn
Meeting Mr. Kim and Learning to Love Kimchi
The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo
Thanks for the Memories
Remember Me?
Life of Pi
Flatmates
Eat, Pray, Love
Poisonwood Bible
Alone
Outlaw
Lake News
Blue Like Jazz
The Reader
We Need to Talk About Kevin
The Girl that Played with Fire
Life Support
Goodnight Nobody
Water for Elephants

Most of them are amazing books. Thanks to Natasha for broadening my reading genre from merely chic lit! I'm so inspired to keep reading more and more!

Kat xxx

Tuesday 6 July 2010

Sleep Glorious Sleep

So, since hearing the news about my job on Thursday, I haven't really slept. My mind has been working over time about what lies ahead. I now understand when people say things like: when we were at war we only slept a couple of hours a night. It's like your body goes into survival mode, and just copes without sleep.

But after 4 nights like that I was really in need of a great night's sleep...and last night I got my wish! 10 hours of almost uninterrupted sleep.

It's beautiful! I can almost think straight! I think the bike ride in the 32C heat helped, and the energy of my kids!

So, thanks for all the prayer, thoughts and what-not!

Love you all xx

Sunday 4 July 2010

Korean Churches, Eating and My Korean Mother...

Today was the 3rd Sunday I've attended church in Korea.

Like every church I've been to we sign hymns, read from the Bible, pray and hear a sermon. But there is one huge difference. Instead of being seen as an outcast because I am different (and I speak very little Korean) I am celebrated. The pastor actually learned a few phrases during the week to say to me.

Each and every person is wonderfully friendly and helpful. When I don't catch the hymn number, they help me, when I don't get the words right, they smile and encourage me to keep trying, and when we say the grace they still smile at me, and include me, even though I can't fully join in.

I guess I am lucky though. I've been involved in a lot of wonderful church families.

Anyway, in true Korean style, after each service there is a joint meal of rice, either fish or meat, and a range of side dishes and kimchi. I love this part too. B, my friend from South Africa, and I are joined by the younger kids and two girls who are a little younger than us (whey speak a little English!) and then we have the ajumas (older ladies) behind us. We all sit and chat and eat and chat and eat. And every time I get near to finishing, I'm presented with more food and then coffee.

But it's more than that. I know it's their way of telling us that we're part of their family.

And that leads me onto something even more special.

I have a special knack of finding a make shift family where ever I go. At church in England it was a few people in the congregation and some friends, in Indonesia it was my best friends family, in Korea...I have found my wonderful Korean mother and father! They are kind hearted souls who pick us up each sunday and drive us to church. Who talk to us like we're normal people. Who tell us off when we do something wrong. Who listen to us when we're sad. Even though a lot of the time we can't understand each other. After church they've started taking us to dinner (yes more food) where we sit with my Berlitz Korean-English Travel book and fashion some sort of conversation. they tell us about their son, and we tell them about our families.

It's lovely.

Today, B couldn't come to church, so I went alone. I was a little nervous, but as soon as I stepped into church I knew it would be ok. And then afterwards, a couple of the school kids walked me home (so cute!!)

I had to break the news to them all that my hogwan is closing and I have no job, so I have to leave. They were sad, just like me. But we've promised to write. So I'm happy I get to keep up my Korean and keep in touch with them. It'll be interesting.

Oh, and as all mothers do, today my Korean mother bought me a top and some fruit, told me I was beautiful and that she was sad I was leaving, before hitting me on my bum, hugging me and sending me home.

So sweet!

Just another thing I'll miss about Korea - but this is where the new adventure starts!

BRING IT ON!

Love xx

Saturday 3 July 2010

And then the Bubble Burst...

So, I've been in Korea for almost 9 months. I could have got pregnant and had the baby by now, but I didn't. I love it here. I should have 3 more months to get used to the idea of leaving, but I don't.

On Thursday I went into work, like any other day. I decided I wanted to know how many more lessons I have until I go to China. I love counting down, there's a sense of achievement in it for me. My first 2 lessons were like every other lesson. My little girls were cute and we did colouring, my middle class was combined with my Friday class, and we played One Card and Chase the Joker. Obviously all in English. We chatted and laughed all through the classes. Then I had my break and went back upstairs just before my lesson was due to start. Less than 5 minutes before my class starts my boss asks to speak to me.

Something you should know about my boss and I. We have a really good working relationship. I teach and have fun with the kids, while he is the strict one. He never tells me to do anything differently, and I make sure he knows what I plan on doing if there is a change in schedule. He respects me as a teacher and I respect him as my boss. I only have to be in hogwan when there's class and I do all my planning at home. It's my perfect set up! Seriously!

So, back to the story. I immediately knew there was something wrong. He asked me to take a seat and then I thought "Oh pants, he's going to ask me to stay on for another year, and I'm not ready to tell him that as much as I love my job and the kids, I want to try somewhere new." So while I spent the split second thinking about what to say, I didn't notice the sad look on his face. And then I did. Oh man, he's going to tell me he doesn't want me to work for him any more. That he doesn't like me or my teaching, and I'm fired.

Oh man. Oh man. Oh man.

Well, it's worse.

He says he's very sorry that he has to do this. And if he could he would do something else. But he can't keep me working for him. The business is dead. (as in he's bankrupt) He has to let me go.

When you might ask? In August? September?

NO!

In July. He says that at the end of the month there will be no more hogwan. Oh, I say. So you will work until then, he says. OK. I ask, when is my last day?

19th JULY!

WHAT THE FLIP FLOP!?

Are you kidding?

I could blog about the extra problems that ensued over the next couple of days, but I'm over them. I don't want to bring them up right now. I'm sad enough that I have to pack up my very comfortable and wonderful life here in Korea and go home.

I'm no longer going to China for 6 weeks, or having black week. Or meeting up with my brother.

Instead I'm going on a very scary and wonderful journey somewhere else.

Man alive.

So, today I stopped crying and started packing.

Boxes and boxes.

Books everywhere.

Oh my, where is it all going to go?

I'm just thankful for my parents and friends. I know something is round the corner that'll prove the reason for leaving Korea so suddenly. And then it'll all make sense. But for now...I guess it's dealing with everything and being more aware of the jobs I take in the future!

As for all of you reading this who are thinking of becoming teachers in Korea. I still say GO FOR IT! Just be careful who you work for. Public schools are the way forward! Longer hours and less pay yes. Being let go with 14 days notice and then short changing your final pay...not going to happen!

I'll try and keep you all updated!

Love Kat :)

Tuesday 29 June 2010

Countdowns....

Remember when you were a little girl or boy and you used to count in sleeps? 5 sleeps until the weekend, 71 sleeps until vacation, 11 sleeps until I get to see the new movie coming out, 14 sleeps until the big dance show. That was me! I used to count in months for my birthday! As soon as it was over one year, I'd be counting down to the next! I love my birthday! I'm not sure why! I just love it! Each year is different, some good some bad...but they're MINE either which way you look at it!

Well imagine my surprise when I look at the calender and realise it's almost July! Almost my birthday! And I haven't even really been counting down!

I'm shocked!

I love countdowns! I even have 2 going on right now...the first one is for when my friends arrive in Korea (surprisingly 1 day before my birthday) and the other on is for the end of my teaching contract in Korea.

The fact the the lads get in 1 day before my birthday just makes my laugh that I keep forgetting that it's my birthday!

OK, so I'm going to stop going on about my birthday - although I did buy my present yesterday :D so happy and excited!!!

So, my important dates go as follows:
23rd July - friends arrive
24th July - mine and Tim's birthday celebration
30th July - start of my week off work
20th September - hopefully a full week off for Chuseok - VIETNAM BABY!!!
week of 11th October - new teacher should be arriving
15th October - hopefully the last day of my contract
18th October - flying out to China
1st November - meeting my brother to travel round China with for 2 weeks.
27th November - flying to Japan
1st December - flying to England where I plan to see a few people and get a quick trip to NY in to see my bestie before:
6th January - flying to Japan to potentially start my new teaching job, but if I can't do that straight away:
JANUARY - chilling out and diving in Philippines!
February - enjoy having a stable life and job for the next 12 months before heading somewhere else to travel and then work...hmmm...India anyone?

OK, so maybe I know why I haven't been counting down the days until my birthday...too many other things going on! And truth be told...I'm getting old! I'm already 25 in Korean years, so turning 24 in the real world isn't phasing me so much :p

Have a great day everyone, and keep in touch xxx

Tuesday 1 June 2010

50 Things to be Thankful For: No. 8...

Chatting to a good friend for hours!

As you'll realise from my last post I've been feeling a little down over the last couple of days. Last night, a good friend that I haven't spoken to in ages randomly popped on line, and we chatted for over 3 hours! I knew I should be going to sleep, but I can't help feeling as if it was just meant to be! So, I went to bed happy and woke up in a much better mood...

And now I'm looking forward to speaking to my best friend over in New York even more!

Have a good day, and keep smiling! Thanks for all the love and support while I'm out here :)

Monday 31 May 2010

The 7 Month Blues...

OK, so I'm a pretty vocal person. I try to be as honest as possible, because honesty is the best policy. I apologise in advance for the slightly sad nature of this blog...

Up until recently, I've been loving my time here in Korea. I love the weather, the geography, the fact I can travel and spend almost guilt free. I love most of the people I have met and made some awesome friends. But in a few weeks time some of my close friends will be leaving Korea permanently to go back to Canada. Once it sunk in that this is going to be life for me in the esl world I got a little upset. Tonight I just felt the overwhelming feeling of loneliness.

The funny thing is I'm happy. So, this came so out of the blue for me that I just don't know what to do with it.

It's like it's just sitting there, ebbing away at something in me. Waiting. For what? I don't know!

This week brought some sad news that my friend who was going to come and visit me has decided not to, because my boss can't change my holiday. I was so looking forward to it - I can't help but feel a massive part of my summer holiday has just disappeared and my total excitement for her stay. And with my vacation being a week earlier than anticipated, some of my other good friends will be here. There in lies the fact that we all want different things for that week. I don't want to go into details, not on here - but it made me realise the sacrifices we all have to make for each other. What friendship really is. Doing something for a friend even when it's not exactly what you had planned. Giving up your week abroad, hiking and diving and relaxing for a week of staying home and hoping for a change. Because at the end of the day, it's about being with those people who make you happy, right?

Living in a small town has come with many benefits as well as draw backs. With only 8 foreigners across two towns, all with our own lives and not much to do apart from drinking as the social activity, I think I'm struggling for stimulation. Girly chats. Swimming. Doing things with friends. But then I have some great friends here and in Korea as well. I have time to read, and study and relax like I never was possible!

I think I'm going to have to reassess a few things....

Monday 17 May 2010

The Lantern Festival – Seoul


For the last month, my friend’s parents have been in the east, first they went to China via a stop in Seoul to pick up Rob, spending a week there before coming down t the East of Korea, to get a real taste of what there is here. They did quite a lot in their time here, but this weekend was their last weekend. Which just happened to coincide with the Lantern Festival – the precursor to Buddha’s birthday next weekend. We all thought it would be pretty cool to head up to Seoul and check out the festivities!

I arrived on Saturday afternoon where I met up with my friends. I’m always surprised how long the subway takes in Korea (and sometimes transport in general! ) and then the waiting. By the time we met up and had lunch it was well on its way to 3pm. Coupled with a quick trip to a couple of more western shops and it was suddenly 6pm! Shocking. I was supposed to be meeting a friend as well, so when the others went for dinner I headed off to meet Ryan, his brother, Stephen and their new friend, Henry. All avid photographers, I felt like the odd one out not wielding my camera around my shoulder. But soon we got into the Insadong area, where the streets had been closed off to cars and traffic, and all the floats were lining the streets instead. There were so many people, but it was great to take some pictures, and wonder around. Catching a performance or two, we just wondered around. When we were heading down Insadong-gil later on we stopped to watch a slightly drunk person dancing while the performers were trying to sing. It was pretty funny. I’ve seen this happen often in Korea, and I’m still surprised when no-one pulls them out of the lime light, and that the singers and dancers can just do their thing around them. We took pictures and debated whether this drunken person was male or female – arguing that there was no adam’s apple, or boobs, but then the outfit was masculine and the hair too. In the end I think we all agreed that it was a woman (maybe swayed by the voice, dancing and the fact that she tried to kiss one of the singers!!)

Grabbing some food at a really nice Italian place, we rested for a while before Henry had to leave and the three of us headed to the river. It was dark at this point, and the river had lights in the rocks, on the walls and in the little waterfalls – it was actually really cute! I made everyone cross over the river every time there was a crossing, and had an awesome time. There was an adoption photo gallery in one of the alcoves that was some of the best work I’ve seen in a long time. It was really emotive. We looked round it a couple of times before tearing ourselves away to see the rest of the lit up river before we all headed back to our respective destinations.

On Sunday I woke up feeling hungover. It was an impressive hangover considering I haven’t had a drink in over a week. I opted for the sunglasses and coffee look and as the day wore on I started to feel slightly more human. We took Rob’s parents to Dongdaemoon Market where we all bartered for the fun of it (the prices are so steep there!) and pointed out some very unflattering underwear. We watched some guys making candy, which was so tasty, and chatted to a couple of people. Then we headed to the Lantern Festival.

In the afternoon we split into girls and boys. The guys went and did their own thing while us girls sat down and created master pieces! That’s right; we got our creativity rolling and made some lanterns. It was pretty fun after we got over the fact that is took a lot of preparation. At the end they were all judged, but none of us won any prizes…such a shame :( hehehe. But they’ll be a brilliant reminder to a fun afternoon in the sun!

After a huge Outback dinner we headed to the festival. I tried to get as many pictures as possible, but none of them really came out. It was really pretty and interesting. The whole parade was about 90 minutes long and there was a lot going on. The lanterns were all handmade and totally stunning. The outfit were amazing as well. I never tire of seeing women in hanboks, and the monks’ outfits, too! WOW! If you want some more information on the festival head to http://english.visitkorea.or.kr/enu/SI/SI_EN_3_6.jsp?cid=533471 where you can read a bit about the history and see some pretty pictures. (I’ll try and put mine up soon – but they might end up on face book sooner than on here!)

Other than that, I came home this morning to discover I forgot to take my trash out, so that was a bit disgusting, and everything else was fine! It’s so nice to be back!

I hope you’re all well and let me know what you’ve been up to.

Thursday 29 April 2010

TEFL Questions Answered!

So, over the last few months I've been answering questions for people from America and England about teaching abroad. I've only been teaching in Korea for a short time, but I love it. I have a very objective view about what I do, and have done a lot of research into the topic - I didn't just want to just into teaching abroad only to hate it, or feel under qualified. So, I just wanted to myself out there, as a person - a normal, ordinary, happy, English teacher - as a sounding board to moving abroad to teach ESL.

I'm happy to listen, to advise, to help when you go into a blind panic an hour before you fly out, or just to ask me why I'm silly enough to enjoy what I do.

So, go ahead, ask me questions, tell other people about me, and all that jazz!

Have a great day! Kat

Wednesday 14 April 2010

The Day I learned about baseball...

This Saturday I went to Daegu with some friends to check out a baseball game and have a few drinks :) so, after loosing some money on Saturday and missing out on an awesome picnic, we headed to Daegu and checked in before making our way to the ball park with our shop bought alcohol (I still can't get over being allowed to bring in your own drink!! I guess if they said you had to buy it in the ball park then they would run out in 5 minutes!) We sat down and Natasha and Denise explained all the rules to me. It's pretty similar to rounders!! It looked like fun, except for people getting hit in the head with the balls. We watched the lions play the tigers. I have no idea who was who, or anything, and even cheered at the wrong time a few times...whoops!! But I think I started getting it in the end :) this weekend we're heading to Daejeon to watch a soccer (football for all in England!) match. Again, it'll be my 1st time watching, but I know the rules for soccer so I can simply enjoy it and shout my guts out :)

In other news, it's mere weeks away to the big run, and I'm slowly upping my runs so soon I'll be running the full 5k! I'm slowly getting into the routine of it all, but it's still pretty tough, especially running when it's practically pitch blank outside. Thankfully Korea is a very safe place :) my parents stay was pretty cool, I'll write a detailed blog of it when I get a chance and include some pictures :) teaching is going ok. I have a new class, with the cutest little girls ever. They are really good for their age and ability so I'm going to have to think of harder things soon! But that's the fun part, right! Umm...and it's cherry blossom fortnight, so the streets are looking beautiful, I just wish the sun was out! Boo!

Anyway, so I haven't written in almost a month, but I've been busy! I'll try and write more regularly, I promise!

Love you all! xx

ps I booked my flights home, so I'll be in the UK for the whole of December before flying to Japan! Maybe you want to book me in :p can't wait to see you all!

Friday 19 March 2010

All in a days work:



So far this morning I've been to the bank, post office and store. I've learnt some Korean, and spoken it, and then spoken English with a lovely Korean lady. I've chatted to my best friend, helped remove a hate profile from facebook and written up some notes...and it's only 2pm...there's so much more to do...I love today :D

What I Saw This Morning...

So, I have a Skype Language Exchange this morning, but I needed to do a couple of bits before - like go to the post office and eat and wake up. Just after 10am I left my little apartment and walked down to the Post Office. It's not a long walk, but it takes me to almost the end of the actual town. As I got to the main road, do you know what I saw? I bet you'll never guess...

SUNSHINE!!!

It's still a little cold and a teensy bit windy today, but the sun was out in full force and it made the town look amazing. People were beaming, cleaning and generally happy. Hello's were exchanged and no grumpy huffs were heard!

I think I'm going to enjoy spring in Korea :)

Wednesday 17 March 2010

50 Things to be Thankful For: No. 7...


Mothers!

OK, so this post is a few days later than the actual Mother's Day Celebration, but is important non the less.

I have a really wonderful mother (don't we all!) she is amazing beyond anything I have ever come to imagine.

She is that person who thinks of herself last, and always comes off second best, but does it so graciously you would never know she came second.
She's that person who gets her point across without you feeling as if you're being lectured.
She's the mother who sits and listens to you for hours, about guys, friends, work, your mind, everything, and just listens.
She's the lady who would drive hours to pick you up in the pouring rain, because you asked her.
She's the person who you call when you're too ill to move, just to hear her voice, and the same one who holds your hair back when you are sick (almost understanding that because it's your birthday and leaving party you got a little carried away),
She's the person who makes your favourite dish every time you come home to visit, for your birthday and sometimes - just because.
She's the person who asks for nothing in return.

She's mum.

And I honestly think mine is amazing! So, here's to a belated Mothers Day Wish!

This year I decided mum should have something for fun, she's always asking for useful things, once we pester her enough about what she wants! I got mum a whole host of Jam making apparatus and a recipe book, so now she has a chance to make some awesome jam. She's been talking about it for over a year now...fingers crossed she can get started now!!

And Then It Hit Me...


It was a normal Monday. After a normal weekend. And I was pondering life, and what I should do with mine.

A lot of my friends are getting engaged and married and starting to have children. Settling down into the wonderful world of familidom (Please understand that I am in no way saying this is a bad thing, it is a wonderful and exciting thing to do). I was wondering what I should do at the end of my year in Korea. I've been thinking about the next step ever since I got here, just so I know I'm sure when I'm done of what I'm going to do.

A lot of people, friends and family included, "What are you planning to do at the end of your contract?" and "When will you come home?" I know it's because they care for me, and are interested in my life, and I am very thankful for them!

It all came to a head in Monday when I just it felt like a giant thing just whacked me on the forehead and said 'WHY ARE YOU ASKING WHERE YOU'RE GOING NEXT, YOU KNOW IT DOESN'T MATTER!'

I mean that in the way of, if I choose the wrong path I can change it. If I don't like a job, I can change it. If I don't like a country, I can move. If I don't have any friends, I can make some! Etc...

That's right folks. I think I'm happy not being where I'm meant to be. I mean who's to say what where we're supposed to be anyway. So, our parents married young and had babies straight away. Our friends are getting married and working hard to make a stable future for themselves.

But for me, the think that sticks in my mind over the years isn't settling down. It isn't even finding that right person who I might settle down with in the future. It's...

wait for it...

It's seeing the world. And not just seeing it, experiencing it. The culture, the vibe, the language, the people. That's what I love.

So, for the moment, I'm not going to worry about what I'm going to do in October. I have a few goals in my life that require me to work, but that's ok! I kind of love teaching English. And lets face it, if you can teach I can teach a bunch of Korean hogwans kids, I'm surely on my way to teaching kids who actually care somewhere else in the world!

So, maybe this doesn't make sense to anyone but me, and that's ok. But I just felt like I needed to get it down on paper (or in cyberspace - does anyone even say that any more?), so that when I get flustered and feel like a bit of comfort, I can remember why I'm doing all of this - because love is hard sometimes, but it's always worth it in the end!!

Monday 15 March 2010

Independence Movement Day in Korea...

So, I've finally got around to writing and telling you about something that happened three weekends ago! I know, how bad am I at keeping in touch. It's just all been a bit crazy here in sleepy little Yeonghae!

On Saturday 27th February Ann, my bosses daughter and friend, took me out for dinner. Over the last couple of months we've been spending a bit of time together. It's been really nice hanging out with a really down to earth Korean, and it's meant I've experienced a side of Korea I never thought I would! We went to this little place at the back of the market where they serve a barley rice with all the trimmings, including fish and steaming kimchi-chigae. I love it! But it's so filling - unlike most of Korea's food. I usually try and grab some food before I eat dinner out, so I'm actually full by the end of the meal, but this time I shouldn't have bothered! The problem is you're expected to at least finish your rice here. The farmers work so hard cultivating and harvesting it that by leaving any is often seen as spitting on their hard work. After this we run a quick errand to the photography shop, where Ann gets passport pictures taken. In the west we have small booths that take only a couple of minutes. In Korea you get to sit in a real photographers chair and you're almost guaranteed a good picture! I must remember to get some pictures done before I leave :)

We head to a symphony. It's the KBS (Korean Broadcasting Station) who are preforming, and it's wonderful. I recognise a couple of the pieces and love listening to the Italian. I see a couple of people I know, including one of my shy students who ends up presenting a couple of bouquets of flowers to the performers. I'm really proud of her as she tells me what she's about to do. I also see one of the old teacher's co-teachers, so we have a quick chat. I like knowing a couple of people here in Korea :)

As I'm writing this the town siren is going off. I've only heard it in Yeongdeok (the next town over) as a drill, but never here. I hope it is just a drill, so I don't have to move. There has just been an earthquake in Japan, so maybe we'll be affected...

Anyway, Jay and I have been texting each other for a while. We're waiting for the two new EPIK teachers to arrive in Yeonghae. The girl is supposed to be staying with me, while they find her a new place, but we haven't heard anything yet. We've just decided that we should go and knock on Denice and Ryan's old apartment door and see if anyone opens up. So, once I'm done with Ann and her friend we head over to the apartment. By the way, I wouldn't normally do something like this, but Korea's a very special place.

That's how we met John, the surfer dude from Santa Barbara. We go out drinking for a while and make plans for the next day. Yeonghae has a massive annual celebration to do with beating the Japanese. It's so big that people come from far and near to join in and talk about it for years. Looking forward to the festivities we all go our separate ways to sleep.

There's also a new guy in Yeongdeok, so John and I head over to pick him up for the day. Bertie is a tall sporty South African. After waiting for almost an hour for a bus we give up and take a taxi back to Yeaghae and meet Jay for some food. The sun is shining and the wind's just right. I know we're in for a treat with weather like that! Straight after lunch we walk down the dusty road towards the music and merriment we can hear. And there it is. Huge by Yeonghae standards, there are lots and lots of food stalls, galbi stations and drinking tents. And in the middle of the area that is normally used as the gym car park there is a stage with chairs being set out for the talent contest and shows later that night.

As soon as we step into this crazy Korean moment we are quite literally dragged towards the galbi station, where the new teachers are made to try this wonderful grilled pork. Oh, and of course mekju. They are loving it. Every galbi station we pass, the proprietors shout for us to join them. Most of the time we do. This stuff is amazing! It's definitely in my top 5 of Korean foods! We wonder round, saying hi to everyone. They love having more foreigners to look at. Some of my students are out and about enjoying the sunshine, and accost me to find out who these new people are. Are they your friends? Do they stay in your house? Who are they? Teachers? Boyfriend? The questions went on and on. It was amusing!

After a good amount of time perusing the area we decide to head to the beach, just because the weather is so nice, it's almost law to walk to the beach on such a nice day :p so off we head on the 40 minute wonder down the road to the beach. It's worth it, just to sit and watch the waves crash on to the beach. For most of the walk we're silent, apart from the odd conversation springing up about the differences between each of our countries or where we can drink tonight, what 's good to eat, how to use things. It's actually nice not to be talking non stop (and I love talking!).

I make my excuses to chat to my parents, our weekly official date to talk together. Mum and I email almost daily, so normally we just get to gossip and natter on our Sunday nights, which is nice. But we are all pretty excited about their impending trip to the east, so we get to chat about where they'll be going and what they plan on doing. It's nice to see them a little less stressed, but I know that over the next few weeks it'll get worse until they leave work. And then their mini adventure starts!

I've planned to meet the lads, somewhere and at some point. None of us thought that in a small place like Yeonghae it'd prove almost impossible to find each other. But as I make my way towards the start of the procession for Korean Independence Movement Day I can't find them. As an aside, March 1st, 1919, marked the beginning of the KIM, when the independence fighters announced Korea's declaration of independence from Japanese colonialism. It didn't go as smoothly as planned, as Japan's response was for their military and police forces to kill and injure thousands of unarmed protesters. But, in the long run, Korea got what they wanted!

I get caught up in the procession and a fire stick is thrust into my hands, while a kind Korean man asks me where my friends went. I say I don't know, but maybe they'll be here. He's kind and we talk for a short while. I always wish I could speak more Korean so that I can talk to him in his own language, but alas learning Korean in Korea has proved to be harder than a solid oak tree. In the process of looking for the lads, I meet another foreigner and her family visiting Yeonghae. How awesome is that? People know about YH!!!

So, the evening continues, I catch up with the lads, and we watch as the evening festivities begin. Belly dancers, drummers, singers, most of whom have been practising all year I imagine. We find a beer tent, and are invited to sit with some old men. As I'm the one who speaks any Korea out of the three of us, I do the talking and explaining. We do shots of beer and soju. I am so going to regret this in the morning!! But for tonight, I'm going to have fun! I discover that the more I drink, the more Korea I can speak and understand. I reconsidering learning Korean at the bar! Eventually, after being dragged onto the dance floor in front of the whole of YH but a crazy drunk man and eating larvae, oh and the famous pop idol sings us sweet melodies, the festival is drawn to a close and we make our way out. We find the 1st bar, and duck in. It's so relaxed and open we stay a while, before meeting up with Jay again and heading to Noraebang, or Karaoke to everyone else :p where we have a couple hours of singing badly and laughing at each other!

And that's almost the end, but nothing else exciting happened, so I'll spare you all the details. I know this has been a long post, but hopefully you get the excitement and how great the day was. I'm glad the new guys came on that weekend, it's such a good start to the rest of the year :)

Saturday 27 February 2010

The rules of my Facebook free time...


This is a tricky one to write about. Any one who knows me will know that since I acquired Facebook from a friend in 2nd year of University it has become an extra limb. When I wake up in the morning, the first thing I do is log on and check it; during breakfast, I'm on Facebook; When I'm planning lessons, I'm on Facebook; When I'm eating lunch, I'm on Facebook; when I'm inbetween lessons, I'm on Facebook; when I finish lessons, I'm on Facebook; when I'm waiting to meet someone, I'm on Facebook. So you get the general picture.

One of my friends told me that she lives on Facebook because she thinks she feels closer to the world at home.

But in reality, I have started to use Facebook as a crutch. I can go a whole day without doing anything, simply because I'm on Facebook!! The are endless links, games, friends information, meeting up with new people, and just random crap!!

So I decided that it might do me some good to have a wee break of it. I decided that I would be a late comer to Lent, an originally Christian tradition but has spread to the wider world in the form of giving up chocolate or some form of bad food. If you want to know more about it then pop over here!

I though it would be good to get some rules down on paper (or on blog in this case) so that you all know what I can and can't do during this period of self-denial:
1) No clicking on any facebook links that will take me to the portal that is facebook!
2) Any emails into my hotmail account are allowed to be read, but not replied to!
3) No posting of statuses, pictures or links on facebook!
4) The only time I am allowed on facebook is to pick up important contact information, such as addresses or links (that are already in my facebook emails).
5) The day I log into facebook and post or search, or look around is the day I quit this period.

So, them's the rules guys - and you'll know when the time is up!

In the mean time I'm getting used to life sans facebook, and catching up on emails and work I should have done a long time ago!

Enjoy the quiet time on facebook people!

Love xx

Friday 26 February 2010

Running in the rain and other crazy Korean adventures...

This week has been interesting.

We'll start with Monday. After a wonderful weekend in Daejeon, Seoul, and Pyeongtaek, I crashed into bed on Sunday night, not so much looking forward to my 12 noon start. But class looked up, with my boss agreeing that the 'conversation' book I've been using with the Monsters is a total bust. They hate it more than me (which I never thought was possible). Me being me - that person who talks before thinking - blurted out 'Oh, so you noticed!' but he seemed to understand. I did add an idea I've been harbouring for a while, which I kind of tested out on Friday, which involved the class watching a video of something (Mr. Bean in this case) and then telling me what happened and answering some questions. This actually worked beautifully. He agreed and a movie watching syllabus was put into action! I have a text book and a movie and everything. While I was on such a good roll I thought I would add that the youngest class finished their text book a few weeks ago now, and I'm done reviewing their topics (there's only so many times the kids can focus on the same pages in their book before going mad!) and I couldn't do much more until we got new books, or he decided what he wanted me to teach them! He was fine about it!

I like my boss!

I think I'm pretty lucky about this fact. It seems that so many people have gone through life not getting along with their employers, but I really got lucky, especially in Korea :)

I soon realised why I was getting the extra nice treatment - there are two new teachers arriving this week to replace Ryan and Denice (who are currently stuck in Pohang while they wait for the weather to improve so that the once a day ferry can cross the water to the remote island of Ullengo, where they'll teach for 3 years!). The problem the schools are having is that there is one male teacher and one female teacher, and in Korea that means they cannot live in the same apartment (unless they are married - although I know a few people who are living together sans wedding vows!) so could I kindly let the girl stay with me! Of course I would love to have someone else cramped into the smallest apartment known to man, why not :) Do we know when these wonderful people will arrive, you might be asking? No. But I'm sure they will tell us before they get here...hahaha...welcome to Korea :)

After class I caught up with Denice, then went running early so that we could all go for dinner to say goodbye. I decided to do a different route than my normal school track running. I'm on a new week on Podrunner and I thought it would be ok - how wrong was I!? It hurt so much, and I didn't run the distance I was supposed to. I felt like crying. But I held my own. Later on, when I was chatting to Denice, she mentioned a friend of hers who had a similar problem, and encouraged me to run again on Tuesday so I could get over my hurdle. Hmmm...

Anyway, it was great to catch up with everyone, even under the cloud that was Denice and Ryan's departure.

Tuesday was a good day. Walking into class, my recently graduated 6th graders decided I was going to take them out to lunch, and took me to a quaint place in the middle of the market - the food was so good! I'm really starting to love Korean food :) we had a great time, and chatted away. I had to laugh though, when once we'd finished our food, the girls spent a good 10 minutes looking in the mirror at their reflections, moving one or two stray pieces of hair and checking their teeth.

I decided to take Denice's advice and try the run again. She came and walked round the track while I ran, and do you know what - I didn't die! I kept going. It was hard, and unpleasant at times, but I did it!! I was so happy I jumped up and down for joy! Literally!! I was flying :D

Afterwards we went to our favourite eatery to get some 'western food' of oven spagetti and chicken tenders, chatting for ages and chilling out. It'll be weird not to do that all the time!

Wednesday was pretty uneventful. It was such a nice, sunny day that I was tempted to walk up the mountain, but I didn't (something I regretted all day, and the next two rainy days!!!) Everyone was in a good mood and it was really nice! After class I caught up with Denice and Ryan and helped them move boxes and rubbish and some stuff for the new teachers to help them feel at home :p then later on I popped over to say goodbye!

It was weird to see them go, and it's still not sunk in yet they they don't live just around the corner, but it'll be a new and exciting adventure for all of us :) yay!

As I was laying in bed on Wednesday night though I decided that I might like to give something up for lent - I know it's late, but that's ok :) the one thing I know I'm addicted to is Facebook. Ever since I got it in the 2nd year of uni, I've basically filled every space second with it! It's a very effective way to pass time and be anti-productive!! I thought I'd sleep on it.

With Thursday can rain, and bad moods. The rain came down in torrents and it was all a bit sad really. My classes were moody and bored and we were all happy for school to finish! I decided that it was a good idea to at least attempt to halt my obsession with facebook for a while - so I stopped. It was easier than I thought. And nice not to be on it all the time. I had a few near misses with automatically clicking on my icon, but it was ok in the end :)

I went to help Ann (my bosses daughter) out at a place called Happy Zone. She teachers English there, and asked me to go and play games with the kids as a treat. IT was her last night, so we had snacks and got presents and took some silly pictures. I love the kids there, they are so enthusiastic about learning and having fun, it's almost easy to teach them!!! So I'll be sad not to go any more. Maybe in summer we'll start it all up again :) I was so touched that the directors of the place make such an effort and even gave me a present, it was so kind.

Oh, I also ran. It was the 3rd (and supposedly last) repetition for this week, and running in the rain was pretty good. I managed to finish and felt pretty good for doing it. But I still think I want to do one more before I move up levels....

Today, Friday, has bee gloomy. It's hard to believe that Tuesday and Wednesday were so sunny and spring like. Classes were good though, and in fact my last class was cancelled. I started missing facebook a little, just in the short gaps between classes and such like. But I think I'm going to be ok.

Word on the street is that the new teachers should arrive tonight. No doubt they will arrive either while I'm out at dinner with the Happy Zone kids, or while I'm in my run. Hmm...that'll be interesting. The poor teacher's will run a mile seeing me looking oh so attractive in my running gear, panting for air and looking in pain! Hahaha, poor souls! But it'll be nice to have some new people about.

I'll keep you all informed on my oh so exciting life, lucky souls!

Love xxx

Tuesday 23 February 2010

50 Things to be Thankful For: No. 7...

The Bank Being Closed...

After class today I took a bus over to Yeongdeok where I needed to go to the bank that can send my money to the UK. The day was so warm and beautiful I was in a pretty good mood, so when I go to the bank and found out it was closed I assessed my options:

1) Go back to Yeonghae straight away;
2) Go to the shops and then go back to YH;
3) Go for a walk to the Buddhist temple to feed the fish.

Option 3 was the only one I wanted to do. I've only been once before and wanted to go and see the crazy fish, and the day was so nice I couldn't just pass it up!

So off I went, up the busy street, over the raod, across the bridge, along the river, past the bare apple trees, and up to the temple.

It was nice.

And then I went home!

It was a good day :)

Wednesday 10 February 2010

Don't you hate those callers that never let you answer?


I do!

For a short while (and maybe a little longer), while I'm in Korea I'm keeping my UK mobile going. It sounds silly, but has turned out to be pretty handy! But that's just an aside to my little story of the day...

Last week mum and dad got a call at home from my bank, asking for me. Obviously I'm not in the UK, so there was no way they could get hold of me at home. So for the last couple of nights they have tried to call me on my mobile. I don't normally pick up my mobile, especially if it's a number I don't recognise - simply because I have to pay for incoming calls on my contract, and unless it's an emergency the people that need me will normally call me on either my Korean phone or on Skype.

I got a little annoyed by the call tonight, so I decided to look for the number on the internet. I found a website telling me it was a fake number, from someone claiming to be from my bank.

I needed to call my bank anyway because while I was in Honk Kong I managed to lock my credit card right in the middle of a shopping spree (something I was a little annoyed about, but which I think might have saved me a whole bunch of hassle!).

After 16 minutes and 34 seconds, the phone call was over and I was happy I had done some investigating!!!

It turns out while I was buying some perfume in the duty free in Incheon Airport, South Korea my credit card (the one I accidentally locked, and I'm convinced was a very lucky thing!) was cloned. It's amazing that they know exactly when your card's being cloned!

And we all though there was no crime in Korea! Pha!

Isn't that scary? I think I'll be watching a lot more carefully from now on!


Tuesday 9 February 2010

A revelation...

Today I discovered that if I wanted to live and work in Australia I would have to do it before I was 30! If you look older than about 30 in Korea, you're unlikely to get a job (they like the young ones!) and if I want to work in China I'm fine.

What does all this actually mean?

Well, at first I panicked - my age in Korea is 25, and so I only have a few years to get to Aus.

And then I remembered my true age...23! Thank Goodness :) I have a few more years.

All I can say is this:

Thank you Korea for making me feel old, but giving me more time than I thought I had!


As an aside, I've been looking at jobs elsewhere in the world. The idea of Dubai still interests me, I'm not sure why, but there are so many opportunities. Sometimes I wish that I only had to choose between 2 opportunities at a time. Don't you? That way you know that you have a pretty good chance of picking the right place. I could stay here, but then I'd be missing out on an awesome opportunity to see more of the world. I'm not sure I'm ready to settle just yet. Hmm...


It's raining...



Deal with it :)




Friday 5 February 2010

Hong Kong Part 2...

Wednesday
Heading back to Hong Kong Island, but to the south this time, we felt joyful. The day was yet again sunny and bright, and I couldn't help wondering about the day ahead. Chris had head of a place called Ocean Park, something I had completely missed in all that I read, and so I charged him with sorting the day out. Firstly getting lost, we finally managed to decipher where we were meant to be going, making our way by bus to the south of the island, we met some excited girls who wanted to know if we were going to Ocean Park. Later we told them and they seemed even more excited by this! How cute. We got off at Repulse beach. the temperature seemed to have soared, and we were feeling the heat. The beach was neatly decorated with bins every 10 or so metres, the trees are equally spaced out too. It makes me wonder why there aren't more trees on UK beaches. We sit on the lip of the bank and eat some snacks we just bought. I watch as some families play in the foamy water, shrieking and running away when it comes near. A little while later walking along the beach I dip my feet in the water, but it's FREEZING. A little too cold even against the warmth of the mid day sun. Still it's nice to be beside the seaside.

We find the little temple at the end of the beach, it's very small and not as good as we hoped for, so we headed to Ocean Park for an afternoon of fun!

Not sure what to expect, we buy our tickets (and at less than £25 who can complain!?). Looking at what we've been given with our tickets, we discover a 50HK$ voucher for use in the park. Crazy! We head in to find some food, but stumble instead upon a circus extravaganza. Boys and girls between the age of maybe 8 and 18 are dressed up in multicoloured costumes. Pinks and purples, blues and greens, reds, whites, yellows, oranges, pinks. All of them have face paint on and flying goggles, and are mighty jolly. The run and jump across each other, barely making it, but looking perfectly practised and enjoying themselves too. We wonder why they aren't in school, but with skills like these, who needs school. We maneuver through the crowd to get a better view of the action. It's amazing to watch them. When we thought they couldn't get better they started doing some tricks, where they were thrown from a see-saw onto another guys legs, where they balanced perfectly and honestly looked as if they loved their art.

We ate at a really nice Chinese place before making our way up to to the other part of the park to explore the rides. The food was great, we watched the carve the fresh duck and beef and the rice was nice too. I wasn't sure how I would cope with the rollercoasters at the top site, knowing how my body reacts to being thrown around like a rag doll. I braved the 1st one, and had a really good time, no feelings of sickness, only mild woosiness. But I survived. While I made sure I wasn't going to be sick Chris went on another ride and met me at the bottom. We went on one more ride before heading for the aquarium. I love fish, so this was where I wanted to be! I loved spending time sauntering through the madly busy place, but still felt an ever increasing calm come over me. Seeing sharks and rays really made my day and I was happy. Chris took some awesome pictures and we were on our way. Walking through the Avery was nice too, but mighty warm. On our way down we saw the seals and watched our afternoon playground disappear as we headed back to the lower part of the park.

My favourite bit of the afternoon was walking through the Panda enclosure and seeing all the Pandas there. I was innocently watching a panda trying to get some bamboo out of a giant block of ice when he thought he'd come and see what I was doing. What can I say, Mr Panda like me! After managing to get away from the window with my life intact (everyone squished!!) we saw some funky fish and then went home. A day well spent I say.

Thursday

We decided to get up early and head to Macau for the day. after all we were so close, and it's only really a day thing. I was also hoping to get a glimpse of the post Portuguese ruling influence. And we did. But we also saw into the very busy Chinese side of life. We were very quickly disorientated by the confusing road signs and the abundance of huge Casinos. We headed towards St. Paul's Ruins, making our way through throngs of people. It was loud and busy, and very very hot. Finally breaking through the hoards we got to the steps and made our way up. Resting on an ancient uneven brick wall to get our bearings, Chris reading all about the ruins and me watching a photographer and his models posing and laughing in between shots.

We walked around the ruins, but with not a lot to see, we quickly thought of what else we could see. Opting for another museum (we really wanted some nice cool aircon) we made our way up the escalator. The museum was interesting, with dioramas, cool bugs, fake houses, movies and lots of other things I think we stayed more than the hour we thought it would take to get round it. On to the Temple of Ama, but after walking and walking and walking, we still hadn't found it. I was ready to give up, but Chris egged me on. After a while more we gave up and took a well deserved rest by a lake. Taking pictures and playing the alphabet game until we made it back to the centre of town.

I was so disappointed we hadn't made it across to the southern island, and had a custard pie, but we decided that the day was probably over. Making our way back to the ferry port, we saw Macau lit up at night - something I was really excited about. But after the day we had I wasn't all that enthused by it.

Stopping at a Japanese restaurant on our way back I ordered whole host of food for us to share and enjoy. It was a little greasy but really made up for the lost day. And we left feeling full and happy. Passing an arcade we couldn't help but pop our heads in, just to have a look. It was so cheap we couldn't help but spend some time playing the many games we played as teenagers. Laughing and racing each other we decided that the day was not lost, and made our way back to the ferry harbour. We managed to find a kind lady who rushed us through the process and got us onto the ferry that left not even 8 minutes after we arrived at the terminal...we were impressed, but very happy! We crashed into our beds and slept soundly for the night.

Friday
After a long week of cramming something into every available minute, we were feeling the strain on our eyelids. We decided not to set our alarms and enjoy our restful holiday. We woke up and relaxed for a while, watching American TV and laughing at the adverts, which Chris had almost memorised since arriving. We headed to Kowloon Park, to see what the fuss was about. It was amazing. We had a picnic lunch of Pret sandwiches, crisps, brownies and cookies. It was fun. Then we wondered around, looking at the beauty of the park. We watched as a gardener delicately trimmed his hedges. It was wonderful and so calming. Definitely what we needed after our hectic week.

We found a quiet spot where we sat and read until it was too cold to stay still, the light was starting to fade and the hunger was making its presence known. Chris had promised me a trip to The Peninsula Hotel for afternoon tea, so we headed over to the hotel. Walking past the fountain and towards the doors I could feel the vibe already. I'm not unused to places like this, when I was little tea parties and grand affairs were more common. The doors were opened and we took our line in the queue. All around was grandeur. An air to the place. I missed the little dark restaurant from the other night, with the home made food, friendly staff and buzzing atmosphere. But we were eventually seated and we ordered the afternoon tea. It was fun in the end actually. Chris completely loved it, which was awesome to see!

Walking Nathan Road back to our hotel via some shops and the wonderful market again I felt buzzed. We chatted and watched TV while I packed. Then slept soundly.

Saturday

After Chris' wonderful gift of the Peninsula I felt it only right to buy him breakfast at the hotel. It was a buffet and we filled up and drank coffee to wake us up. Is was fun. Finishing packing, we left our bags with the porter and headed back to the park, where we relaxed for the majority of the rest of the day. We headed for Dim Sum and then back to the hotel to get our shuttle to the airport, where we would leave each other for who knows how long. I contemplated the wonderful whirlwind holiday that occurred while I attempted to sleep on a slightly uncomfortable set of air port chairs. And then on the very long bus ride home the next day.



Well I hope you enjoyed this blog, and well done for finishing it!!! I'll write again soon, I'm sure! Kat xx

I thought it was about time to tell you about Hong Kong!

So, I know I promised I'd get round to this, and so it is on a blustery Friday night, I come to tell you all the story of Hong Kong. It's a long but wonderful story of warmth, hot showers, friendship and a small taste of the Western World I didn't think I really missed!

The trip really started on Friday night when I hopped on a bus at 8pm from Younghae to Pohang. From there I had to wait until 11:30pm for my next bus up to Incheon airport. It was a long bus ride and didn't get much sleep, but we arrived at around 4:30am. I met a really lovely girl at Pohang so we chatted the hours away, before I headed to check in and try and stay away (all I can say is Thank God for coffee!) So here, the Hong Kong Story truely begins...

Saturday
Arriving in a busy but neat airport I gather my belongings and head for arrivals. Since I landed Chris and I have been texting, telling each other we'd arrived and arranging where we were to meet. I got flutters in my stomach at the thought of seeing an old friend. Someone who knew me. Someone who spoke English. Someone who most of the time knew what I was thinking (poor fella). Making my way through arrivals I frantically search for Chris, knowing he's around somewhere. Always slightly out of the way, never causing a scene. So, I make my way round the throngs of impatient people waiting for their loved ones, work colleagues and friends (I expect some weren't all that excited by the arrivals too, but for this story lets just pretend they were all early awaiting someone special!). I walk as quickly as I can, hauling a gigantic purple suitcase, and a couple of duty free bags. It's been a while since I've shopped and I couldn't help but start early.

I see Chris by some greenery, and I feel like running and hugging my wonderful friend who's just flown a long way to meet up with me in Hong Kong, but my bag prevents me. We greet each other and then he kindly suggests Starbucks! You see, he can read my mind! We settle down to eat our cakes and drink our drinks, feeling satisfied to have made it this far. Catching up on the last 3 months of our lives and discussing what the week ahead holds for us. I feel another flutter of excitement bubble to the surface as I contemplate all that we can do. I love exploring new places.

We finish up and find our hotel pick up. Both desperately wanting to shower off the long haul travel that brought us here, and relax for the evening. Soon enough, we are on our way into the neon dream that is night time Hong Kong. We pass boats with lights, building with lights, bridges, streams, chairs, everything seems to be covered in multicoloured neon lights. I'm used to this in Korea, but this seemed different. It was happier. I noted that we drove on the left, the British road signs, and the more relaxed manner of driving. It was almost like being back home.

I loved it straight away!

Saturday night passed with grabbing some KFC, which included Chicken-a-la-king, going for a short walk around our hotel area, which was higher than down town Kowloon, but lower than the New Territories. It was buzzing. Crashing out on our return to the hotel was nice.

Sunday
Sunday was reserved for Chris' jet-lag and a general day of rest. Instead we woke up late and wondered around Hong Kong Island. It was pretty relaxed. We walked for hours, finding a Cathedral, some back alley shops, Statue Square and all sorts. We also decide to take the Tram up the Peak. Waiting in queue for what seemed like ages we walked past snippets of the Trams history. It passed the time in the crowded line, although the wai was a little painful! Eventually we made it onto the Tram. Hurray! It was over crowded, but everyone was so excited to be heading up to see the views of Hong Kong. Chris and I were excited too, if not starting to get a wee bit tired at this point. Luckily a small group of people squished on their little bench and offered me a seat. Something I was very grateful for when we started our accent. At some points the Tram must have been going up at a 45 degree angle. Imagine standing up on that without support! The views going up were pretty cool though.

At the top we we wondered round and looked at the various views. It was nice to see the Hong Kong that we would be visiting over the next week. Chris took lots of pictures of all different angles and because my camera was broken, I just looked out in the various directions. I had to laugh at a couple who had brought their tripod with them and spent a good 5 minutes assessing the perfect angle to take a picture of themselves. First, she made her boyfriend stand very still at the edge of the balcony while she adjusted and readjusted the camera, tell him to move every so often. Then when she thought it was about right, the boyfriend checked and then changed the angle again, before standing in front of the camera while she then rearranged it. Finally they stood together. Her with a sullen pout and him with a frozen expression. They checked their image before starting all over again. I knew I had to leave before I started giggling at them too much :)

We headed back down to warm up, look around the shops and find some food, before heading up again once it was dark out. The view was incredible. Seriously. The beautiful greenery had disappeared and was replaced with a postcard picture of Hong Kong at night. We could see for miles. The HSBC building, Cannon's red neon light, Samsung, AIA, the harbour with it's boats. The lights cutting through the already retreating daytime fog. Wow.

After standing in a freezing cold line to get the Tram back down the mountain we made our way back to the subway station. Standing in the glow of it all. The trees only adding to the Industrial playground. The fountains were lit up, the building ablaze with light. It was comforting, even if it is such a waste of our resources. I apologise for anyone who thinks this is a waste. I do too, but I can't pass on it's beauty. I think that unlit buildings have a very eerie feel, and so this was nice!

Monday
Waking up early the next morning I decided to leave Chris to sleep and headed into the hub of Kowloon. The sun was shining and t was warm. I stumbled upon a Starbucks 1st, so I just popped in to get my morning caffeine fix before heading to the harbour. The water was blue! And the sun shone off it beautifully. Everyone was happy and busy and moving at a rate of knots. I lingered around the harbour watching the world go by, getting my Hong Kong bearings. I made my way to the shopping mall. IT was huge and very inviting. I relaxed there for a short while, looking at designer brands and finding few things I might like to buy. Considering Chris might be up and dressed I headed back to the hotel.

We decided to go back to the Kowloon area and check it out for the day. Now I had kind of found my bearings I was feeling confident enough to at least know when to get off the subway (although with about 10 exits at each I never quite knew which one to take!). We got some food and headed back to the harbour. fog was light, and only enhanced the magical atmosphere. We relaxed as we sat on some railings and looked out to Hong Kong Island. Working boats and ferries were making their way through the harbour. It all all very picturesque.

I decided to get the last Star ferry, that evening, taking 2 hours and allowing us to watch the famous daily light show. So we had a few hours to go before we could get aboard. We walked through a neat concrete park, with a Big Ben style clock, wispy trees and some small fountains. Some workmen were erecting a bizarre iron statue of a giant man with just one air plane type wing. Past the bamboo scaffolding, and into the Art Museum.

Now I am most definitely not an art enthusiast, but there wasn't much else we wanted to do, so Chris suggested a quick visit to see what was there. Wondering round for an hour or so in the very quiet but mildly interesting museum wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. Maybe it's because I amused myself with imprinting, accidentally falling into a huge statue and laughing my way through a few of the exhibits. All in all I wasn't as unimpressed as I thought I would be. Phew! Before heading to back to the harbour to catch our ferry we decided to eat (at Outback!) and head to the Avenue of Stars, hoping to see one or two names we recognised. Wondering up and down the avenue we spotted Jackie Chan and a couple of other names we knew.

As dusk approached we made our way back to the harbour. With the sun behind the mountains the lights came on. The blue neon lights piercingly bright across the water. The ferry approached and we boarded, happily! Finding good seats at the front of the ferry we settled in for the trip. It was intoxicating. The bright lights and the sea breeze were enough to make us giddy! When the light show started I was excited, but that quickly passed when I realised it wouldn't involve any fireworks!

In an effort to keep the great day going we headed to a market on our way home. To this day I'm still not sure which market we found, but it was the best one we went to all week! Finding knick-knacks I bartered with the old men and woman in their booths and got them to reduce their prices nicely. Everything was such a bargain. I truly love market shopping like this. After I'd dragged Chris around for far to long we went to make our way back to the hotel when we stumbled across a film set. Me being me, wanted to know what was going on. So I weaselled my way into the crowd hoping to get a glance of the action. Chris was growing tired and I told him that we wouldn't stay long. In actual fact we stay for well over an hour. Once it got interesting neither Chris nor I wanted to shift. They were filming a scene where the hero of the movie had to jump through a door of glass. It sounds more exciting than it actually was, but it was nice to watch how things worked on the film set.

Tuesday
Again, I woke up early and decide to leave Chris to sleep in. Today was my shopping day. I first headed to Starbucks to grab coffee and then made my way around, buying things I needed. I came back laden with bags and feeling a little tired. Chris just laughed at me. Knowing I'd gone a little overboard I hoped that I could a) fit it all in my suitcase and b)manage to get it through check in without paying a weight fine!

In the afternoon we headed to Lantau Island, to the West of Hong Kong Island. It was another very bright, sunny, hot day. We took the cable car to the Big Buddha, which took about 20 minutes, but it was very peaceful and we saw some wonderful views. To our left as he headed up was a mountain, nothing out of the ordinary. But the mountain was covered in a bright white fluffy cloud, which was literally spilling over the mountain. I wished I could have caught it on camera, but it never quite looked right. We went over a couple of mountains and then in the distance we saw the Buddha. Small at first, so we could still focus on the small hiking path below us and the airport to our right, and the abundance of green growing on the mountains all around us, but soon we were transfixed on the ever growing Buddha. The clouds spilling over the mountains but not covering the Buddha for a moment. And the contrast between the dark and light only aided the scene.

We found the entrance and started up the 300 odd stair to check out this site that was a must see. I have to admit that the detail was pretty impressive and it was kept in pristine condition, but the views away from Buddha were much more breath-taking. I would suggest someone go up there to look out over Lantau. wow!

Heading down we wondered around a little before heading back to Kowloon and to another market. Only, we couldn't find the awesome market we had found the night before. So deciding to have a wonder round instead taking pictures of the neon lights that lit up the whole of Hong Kong and wondering aimlessly, chatting away, before heading back to the hotel.

Part Two to follow I think...